Love Pulls

There’s a funny thing about love.

It seems I have to remind myself at times that I am not only worthy of my man’s love, but that he does indeed love me. No matter how many wonderful gestures or nice things he says, I still go through the uncertainties. Mostly because I know that there is a possibility he could pack up his bags at any moment and leave. And, it is possible. It is. That’s how life works.

But then there are other moments when I can’t believe how lucky he got to be able to go out with a gal like me. I mean, how amazing am I?! He hit the jackpot. And there is no reason he shouldn’t love this woman.

The best moments are when I’m just there. With him. And there’s a solid certainty in our love for each other. We are indestructible and solid. It could happen anywhere. Sitting in front of the telly at night, out in London amongst friends, or Christmas shopping late night. That’s what I aim to be consistently. There, in love, and content – laughing and unbreakable. I don’t know how else to describe it. It’s just that feeling that we are meant to be.

Because I believe we are.

I aim to always remember the third option and to keep going back to it. And tell my head to shut the f*&% up please. Thank you.

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  • http://intensedebate.com/people/meglopes TheLadyWhoLunches

    I guess it's one of those things we always have to work on. I heard it in my theatre classes all the time, but it appears to be a lesson for not just acting, but life and love too.

  • http://intensedebate.com/people/eoshea eoshea

    *waving lighter in air*

    • http://intensedebate.com/people/meglopes TheLadyWhoLunches

      God! I freaking love this song! Soooo good. Yes, it hurts. But it hurts so good!

  • http://intensedebate.com/people/eoshea eoshea
  • http://intensedebate.com/people/eoshea eoshea

    Good advice for us all. And you'll need to keep reminding yourself of it over the years.

  • http://intensedebate.com/people/smittnbybritain smittnbybritain

    I keep hearing this over and over again: "All you have is today, so enjoy it." Don't waste today worrying about tomorrow. Now, I will be the first person to tell you that it is easier said than done. I'm trying more and more to live this way and I think it's the healthy way to go. Your post is sweet.