Reality Strikes, Now What?

We’re back in Baltimore, Maryland.

Our month long escapade across the roads of America is over. My month long escape from monetary, artistic and logical goals has quickly caught up to me. And here we are.

Here we are in the spare bedroom in the house of my wonderful sister, her boyfriend and my nephew on their blow-up bed. Their very comfortable and hospitable blow-up bed, I hasten to add – but it is nevertheless their blow up bed.

As many travelers know, the traveling is wonderful (if not a bit tiring), the seeing beautiful places is the best and the adventures are what you write home about and never forget – but it’s the getting home afterward that is the killer, and is the part that you forget about. The part that when you’re planning all the incredible things to do in the world that you don’t want to even worry about.

Because what is the point? Of worrying. It will all work out. It always does. (Read this blog post by Alisha if you want to hear her take on it – Bird by Bird. Have I already linked to that in a previous post? My mind is frazzled.)

And here we are back at The starting over. From square one. With three suitcases holding all of our possessions in the world, and our bank account aching for us to make it fatter.

So… I need to find a job.

After nearly two years of working on my own terms, under my own auspices (I just had to look up that word to make sure I was using it correctly – see what a month of driving around America does to the mind!) and making my own hours, it is time to find something to bring in the cash.

Don’t get me wrong, I will still be writing, selling my book and eventually finding a job that I love to do….but in the meantime, hard and cold, and even a little bit pretty, cash is what I need. And I’m not afraid to get my hands grimy.

This lady who lunches is not afraid to hang up her dainty lunching hat and pull up her dirty knickers to get this couple a place to live. (Although before I start getting charitable contributions or letters of sympathy, I want to clarify that we are in no way poor or starving or lacking in funds – we will be if I don’t get a job soon, but we have enough for the general down payments, moving expenditures, food, etc. Don’t want anyone to worry for no reason ;)

Tomorrow I will outline my plan and have something more inspiring to say – or contemplative – or philosophical – or observant….

In the meantime, time to catch up on that much needed sleep. 28 years old catches up to a gal!

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  • http://www.ladywholunches.net/blog Lady Who Lunches

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    Thanks! So nice to have you here. Now I get to check out your blog.

  • eileen

    I think you need to set up a paypal account that we can all make donations to. Call it the “gimme a buck fifty pool” and see what happens! I'd be happy to start the ball rolling with, say, a $5 or even $10 donation. Just think if 100 people contributed! Or 1,000! As an added incentive, promise that you will never spam them after they make their donation. This was an idea Chuck had a while ago, but we're happy to share it. It's a very low stress way to earn $$. Or even $.

    • http://www.ladywholunches.net/blog Lady Who Lunches

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      That would be brilliant! If only I could do something like that without feeling like a panhandler…must re-program brain.

  • Kat

    After 3 weeks of traveling I just wanted my own personal space and to sleep on MY bed.

    • http://www.ladywholunches.net/blog Lady Who Lunches

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      Exactly! Now we just have to find a bed! Where were you traveling? I must catch up on blogs. SO far behind.

  • http://preppypinkcrocodile.blogspot.com Preppy Pink Crocodile

    I only just found your blog but can't wait to read more. Good luck with the big job hunt!

    • http://www.ladywholunches.net/blog Lady Who Lunches

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      Thanks! So nice to have you here. Now I get to check out your blog.

  • http://twitter.com/travelmaus Hanna

    Oh I wish you good luck with the hunt for house and job! I had to do the house hunt two years ago and it is a daunting task, especially if you're doing it alone. At least you have Jock. As for the job hunt, I should get off my currently fatter ass and see if there is something better and more exciting out there, too ;)
    I'll take you as my inspiration as I often do :) Bestest to you !!!

    • http://www.ladywholunches.net/blog Lady Who Lunches

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      Yes, I do feel very lucky to have Jock. I have done it every other time alone and it is quite daunting. As long as I don't bite his head off in the meantime, it should be easier!
      And yes! Find something that inspires you!! Why not?! xox

  • Smittenbybritain

    Meagan, I think I've gotten lost on all of your travels. Ha,ha! I thought you were settling down in Chicago? Or was there a change in plans? Even with with wind blown hair and flies in your teeth, you still look good girl!

    • http://www.ladywholunches.net/blog Lady Who Lunches

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      My bad! I see how that could be confusing. We're here for a couple of weeks (possibly longer if once we go over finances it ends up that I need to make some quick cash before we can move) and then we head to Chicago! I guess I shouldn't truly say our travels are over, but I guess I consider Baltimore as home rather than traveling.
      Thanks Melissa. Still want to see you before we go!