Getting to know someone

Sometimes the simplest ideas are the most overlooked.

I titled my book “Three Questions” based on the simple concept that Jock’s friend came up with while they were out and about. His friend, Darrell Kingsbury, used to sit in a pub and go around asking silly questions to the boys – “if you were an animal, what would you be?” “If London Bridge is standing why is there a song about it falling down?” or “Who would you rather…”

When Jock and I met for those 8 hours, we knew that there wasn’t much time to get to know each other in Las Vegas, while drinking and dancing. So, he took his friend’s idea, and brought it to our letters while he was traveling through Africa. He randomly chose “three questions” and the rest is history.

At my book launch, I created these great Moo.com Mini Cards where I took three questions from my book, and created conversation starters.

It was such an integral part to the beginning of Jock and my relationship, that I never really appreciated how special it was. Maybe couples that have long-distance relationships actually have more time to get to know each other because they’re not confused by all the physical and everyday stuff that sometimes gets in the way.

There’s just something so intensely romantic about getting to know someone through letters. Of course, the challenge is making sure that you aren’t projecting false information onto that person.

So, do you think you can get to know someone better by being long-distance, or is it better to be in the same town?

All in a Day!

What a day!

I scheduled my first newsletter announcing the arrival of my paperback to go out this morning. By 8AM, 200 people had opened the email, and by the end of the day, my open rate was 15.6% higher than the industry average (31.9% open rate), with a total of 522 people reading it! The amount of support that came flooding in after I sent that email was overwhelming – you just never know where the support will come from.

Email marketing is not to be overlooked – I’ve sold more books today than I have in the past month and a half. Thank you to everyone out there who has helped so far – more to come soon.

When I got home, two large boxes were sitting on my kitchen counter – the 50 books I ordered for my launch party have arrived, and my oh my – it all feels so official. Wow – three years later, and what started as an idea, a few letters, and a little laptop is now a real life book.

Now that the books are here, I’m able to offer signed copies for sale (unfortunately for now, it’s only in the United States)! If you are interested in receiving a signed copy, please click below:

Also, the arrival of the books mean I can officially set a date, and celebrate! Let me know if you’re interested in attending the launch party – if you happen to be (or want to be) in the Chicago area, and I’ll add you to the list.

If you just want to receive updates on the book tour, promotions, and news, you can sign up here:

Thank you all again – I promise more real (and less promotional) blog posts soon! I have a juicy one coming up on why I decided to stay in Chicago, rather than pursue acting again in Hollywood…

In the meantime, I present to you the BOOKS….

 

Three Questions: A Kickstarter project

I’m about to delve into the world of funding for my novel. I came across the website Kickstarter.com when I was writing for midVentures last year, and interviewed the founder of Chicago-based MINIMAL about his creation of an incredible watch that is made from the iPod Nano. He was the closest ever to almost reach $1million in funding.

The website makes it possible for artists in any category (from design to writing to photography and dance) to make their artistic visions come to life through the help of donors. The success of the Kickstarter campaigns, I believe, come from the rewards that are given to the donors. You can create any type of reward.

For example:

$3 – $9 – Contributors will receive recognition as a Sponsor on the Sponsor page on my website

OR, if you’re more generous, you would receive the following:

$99 – $199 - Contributors will receive recognition as a Sponsor on the Sponsor page on my website with their photo & links to their blog and a signed copy of “Three Questions” in paperback with a handwritten thank you card by moi.

There is also one for slightly higher where I will wear a t-shirt of your face for one week straight, and post it on my blog.

And so on.

Contributors feel like they are a part of the creation of something, and are truly able to get a project off its feet. The Los Angeles Times reported on “recently wed alternative power couple Neil Gaiman and Amanda Palmer” who are both “figuring out how to survive as creatives in industries rocked by digital change. That’s why they turned to Kickstarter.” In a recent article by Wall Street Journal’s All Things Digital, they said “In the Elizabethan era, artists were supported by wealthy patrons; we’re headed back toward that world.” Not that you have to be a wealthy patron to support this kind of thing…but it is fascinating to think that I might have the possibility to truly take my project where I want to take it.

So, if I already published the novel, why do I need more money? Essentially, I was motivated by the phrase “If you write it, they will come” everyday of the two years that I sat down to write my novel. That’s a great phrase to get you up and writing, however, it doesn’t exactly help to sell more books.

I intend to use the money to create a trailer for the novel, to set up a book launch, for marketing materials, a small book tour, and perhaps, for a new cover design. Not only is my goal to sell more books, but I also started a screenplay based on the novel that I would love to finish.

I’m still working out the kinks of it all, and how I’ll do it.

But, I thought I’d ask you guys first, what kind of rewards would you like to see in there? Think big, think small, think in circles – I don’t mind! I want you guys to be a part of this as well!

P.S. My recent press on the Towson Patch is here!

Virtual World vs. Physical World

I will be the first to admit that I love my online life. It has provided other worlds the ability to see into their counterparts. It bridges gaps in education, knowledge and spreads messages faster than any other medium in the world. I am amazed by the technology that continues to grow and change, and I fully embrace it. In fact, I am probably, in some ways, more a part of that world than I am the physical world – I work in that world, I communicate in that world, and I create in that world.

I am so grateful for it – I am able to immediately publish a novel online that readers can download the day after I’ve uploaded it. I can make a trailer to an adventure I had, and have it online a few minutes after I push “submit” on Youtube. See below for my adventure in the Catskills with my girlfriends during Hurricane Irene (oh, and trust me, it was an adventure!):

But, after 2 and a half years of working on something, there is nothing like the gratification that comes with holding a physical, tangible object. I could even see it in Jock’s face when my novel came in the mail – it was like, this is actually real.

I didn’t just spend 30 months on something to have it land in the abyss that is the internet. No, I spent that time so that it could be taken on a vacation with someone and their family, so that it could be borrowed to a friend, so that it could curl up with you in bed, so that your tears would fall on a page and make an actual stain! I want it to hang out on your bookshelf, or your coffee table and come up in conversation.

Three Questions Physical Book Meagan Lopez

Is that the ego? Maybe it is, but nothing, and I mean nothing beats holding my own book in my hands. Sure, it won’t be ready for you to buy for a few more weeks, and time is precious, but I am glad the ebook is there to fill that gap in the meantime.

Can’t wait to send you a signed copy! Stay tuned for ways you can get a discounted, pre-ordered copy! Pardon me while I plug a bit more below.

Check out my interview with The Next Web here.

If you’d like to purchase my ebook, it’s here for $2.99!

Eight hours in Vegas.
A promise to meet in Chicago.
Four months apart while he traverses through the depths of Africa and she “aspires” through the haze of Hollywood.
Three questions each letter.
Their intense connection is clear, but fate is only as strong as timing allows it to be. She has a life-long passion that is finally turning into a career. He has landed enough British pounds to travel the world for the first time in his life.
Will their honest answers be enough to bring them back together?