Guest Posts & Happy Stuff

All this plane flying has given me some time to write a few guest posts on other blogs (stay tuned for another one on Smitten By Britain‘s blog as well).

First up, I got to thinking more and more about why British actors are on our airwaves, and are seemingly better actors than us, the American counterparts.

This is what I came up with on Michelle‘s blog, The American Resident: Are British Actors Better than American Actors?

Then, a year ago, Toni Hargis, a British expat who now lives in Chicago and who met up with us in London during out expat bloggers convention (I’m exaggerating, there were about 6 of us), asked me to write about my repatriation experience.

Finally I got around to writing it: Repatriation: An American’s Story.

She also finished my novel, and wrote a smashing review! (You can read all my current reviews here – be sure to leave one if you haven’t already.)

“Don’t be fooled into thinking this is just another “girls-gone-wild” or chic-lit debut novel. Not only is “Three Questions” the delightful love story of American Adele and an Englishman named Guy- it asks surprisingly searching questions of both the characters and the reader.
From the simple – “What is your favorite meal?” to the scary “How would you describe your mom?”, Lopez delves deep into her characters’ hearts and souls. You’ll be rooting for the lovers throughout the book, and you won’t be disappointed with the denouement.”

8 days left before my Kickstarter ends – help me turn my novel into a screenplay through your contributions, and some great rewards (if you haven’t already). Email everyone you know, tweet out to the world, and post on Facebook! We can do this together!

 

What does success mean to you?

Giving back isn’t something I’ve been particularly good at.

One year my family and I worked in a soup kitchen for Christmas, I was the spokesperson for the National Rainforest Association at USC, and I went to impoverished schools to teach them improv during high school. But, I could do more. We all could.

Digital Hope is an organization that reminds me that I want to do more.

Digital Hope is a nonprofit organization that performs volunteer projects around the world for high-impact, independent organizations – places like orphanages, wildlife sanctuaries or schools – and they use the power of social media to fund each project.

Johnny Roa, the founder of Digital Hope, asked me a question last weekend – “If you found a large amount of money lying on the floor, what would you do with it?” I paused, thoughts of movies being made, flats in Paris and travel immediately entered my mind. But, I honestly didn’t know exactly what I would do with this large undisclosed sum.

He did. He knew exactly what he wanted to do with a large sum of cash (mind you, he didn’t find it, he earned it.)

That’s also a similar question he asks donors: “If you are going to donate money, wouldn’t you want to know exactly where it was going?”

Well, many nonprofits give less than 50%, some as bad as only 1%, of all donations to the actual cause – allowing the rest to go to administrative fees, salaries and well, could you call it profits? Johnny tells me that there are even a few cases where for-profits masquerade as not-for-profits. (Click here and here for examples of both.)

Another thing that Johnny discovered while researching other charities and non-profits was that many of their CEO’s were making nearly half a million dollars, sometimes more. Upon first glance, it seems fair that if said CEO’s work hard, and contribute to the well-being of others that they should be given a fair wage. However, what most people don’t realize is that this means the first 15,000 $20 donations would go directly into the CEO’s pocket. If you donated your hard-earned money, wouldn’t you want to know that it was going to the people and the causes you were fighting for, and not the CEO living in his/her penthouse apartment?

Johnny wanted to find another way to live his life.

interviewed Johnny back in December for a completely different thing entirely. He also happens to own a few companies himself, one of which is a user-experience strategy and design firm called AKTA. The interview was for a presentation he was giving at a midVentures DESIGN + DEVELOP series (midVentures being the company I used to work for, and who recently threw Chicago’s TechWeek). He answered the email from a bus driving through the Chilean mountains.

At the time, I thought: This guy certainly has it all. Successful businessman, world traveler. What more could you ask for?

But, he had already started thinking about the “best case scenario,” as he calls it. Before Digital Hope, his “best case scenario” basically involved making money, making other people a lot of money, employing others, traveling as he likes, etc – all that comes with a comfortable lifestyle.  He writes in a blog post:

“I posed this question to my best friend when I was first thinking about Digital Hope: “can you imagine the best case scenario of a day’s work being that you saved a child’s life, or put a roof over a family’s head?”. Even as I was saying it, I knew I had to have that. I must know what it feels like to have an outcome other than the traditional definition of success.”

Johnny and Ruairi Digital Hope
So, he started Digital Hope, he gave a large sum of his own towards this charity, he’s finding incredible investors to put money into the administrative day-to-day operations (to make sure that 100% of money donated by you and me goes to help those in need and NOT pay for their operations). He and his best friend Ruairi Hyland, are trading the big city life for a life on the road, living out of a backpack, traveling the world helping those in need.

Yes, they will change the world, I have no doubts, one brick at a time.

They are searching for underfunded charities the world-wide who have great people behind them, but just need a little more money, a little more time, and a little more help. Digital Hope will use social media to find donors, to spread the word, to film their interactions with the locals, and to show you how they are helping. They want the donors to see where their money is being used (and no, their airfare and accommodations will not be included in that).

They are literally giving hope to others through digital means.

Jock is inspired, I am inspired. If I go missing in January, it’s because I have packed myself into Johnny and Ruairi’s suitcase. If you want to find out more, please follow them on Twitter, and check out their website.

Separating Personal from Professional

(This post is not an example of separating the two, unfortunately – rather an explanation of how I will in the future).

Like I said in my previous post. There will be many changes with my blog and website. I’m looking to make it more of a professional melange of my writing, social media and projects that I am working on.

HOWEVER, I have decided that I will continue the Lady Who Lunches section – I want to keep it light, personal and fun. My plan is to only post personal, travel and expat living news on this blog and leave the professional stuff for another RSS feed. (In case you are unclear what that means, don’t worry, you won’t have to do anything.)

It’s about time I separated my personal from my professional anyway. So, I will have them all under the same umbrella, but there will be separate links for each, keeping the personal link as the Lady Who Lunches. (All with a little help from some family.)

It will all become clear quite soon.

In the meantime, did I mention what a fabulous New Year’s we had with Jock’s brother, Kevin and his girlfriend, Oona? We were so adult with our New Year’s Eve dinner with the cougars at Tavern on Rush and our noise makers. One of the best new years ever.

My New Year’s Resolutions? In no particular order:

  • Make new friends in Chicago (and touch base with old ones)
  • Start book club in Chicago
  • Sell my book
  • Edit my screenplay
  • Finish decorating apartment
  • Tighten ass
  • Wear red lipstick even more often
  • Make sure my family and friends know how much I love them
  • Launch MeagLo 2.0

AND, did you know that we now have a double income for the first time in our household ever?

Yes, that’s right. After nearly three years of being together, Jocko and I are both working! Jock is now Director of Customer Relations for midVentures Technology Partners. (You might recognize the company’s name from the social media work I do for them).

I think this means I deserve some Christian Louboutin shoes, don’t you?

A Warm Autumn

It smells like Autumn. The leaves are falling in recognition of Autumn. They are changing colors dutifully. The pumpkins are in full tilt, Trader Joe’s is sampling warm apple cider and packaged candy lines the shelves.

So where is the cold? I don’t want it to be cold. But it should be, shouldn’t it? We’ve been warned about the severe Chicago temperatures. Where is it?

According to that website that does all the statistics for weather, it is tied with 1998 as the warmest year so far since 130 years of history has been recorded.

That and all the research I’ve been doing for another blog I’m writing for makes me concerned that things are getting bad. Real bad.

I went running today along the lake in pants and a long sleeved shirt and I was sweating before I even started. Where was the smoky breath? The freezing hands? The cold butt? (Is it just me or is that the only area that freezes during cold-weather running?)

I love the weather right now – if only there weren’t that nagging suspicion that there is a price to pay for it.