“Ladies Who…” and the Loner on the 4th

A Club for Sociable, Inquisitive Ladies

4 bottles of wine, 6 lovely ladies, 1 very pregnant-about-to-burst belly, loads of homemade chicken pasta, few deviled eggs American-style, strawberry and nectarine compote, 1 book decided upon, and 1 unexpected pop star death made for a rather interesting, and I’d even say exciting, first meeting.  It was held at our house.  Mingling went on for a good hour and a half before the hammer was struck and ideas were put on the table.

I had asked each guest to bring two ideas for a book they wanted to read.  By the end, we had narrowed the twelve books down to three and came up with – duh duh duh – a LOVE STORY!  Women and love – we just can’t get enough of it.

Thank you Lynette for bringing in the idea!  Here it is, our first book:

*One Day, by David Nicholls
I can imagine you at forty,’ she said, a hint of malice in her voice. ‘I can picture it right now.’ He smiled without opening his eyes. ‘Go on then.’ 15th July 1988. Emma and Dexter meet for the first time on the night of their graduation. Tomorrow they must go their separate ways. So where will they be on this one day next year? And the year after that? And every year that follows? Twenty years, two people, ONE DAY.

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Our Second Meeting Invitation

The Loner on the 4th of July

I hadn’t really realized what it would feel like to be the only American on our day of Independence because, frankly, I had never been the only American on our day of Independence.  So, therefore, never really had to think about it.  I particularly enjoyed the irony of celebrating this joyous day with the very people we became independent from.  I don’t think they really got the irony (and they say Americans don’t understand the word!), but it probably was because they weren’t particularly bothered one way or the other.

Bez

Bez

The 4th of July is another special day here in Bristol because it marks the birthday of Jock’s dear friend – Paul Beswick – also known as Bez.

And celebrate we did!

I also must brag a bit first.  I have the best boyfriend in the world.  No, really.  I do.

I woke up on the morning of “O! say can you see” day to nine colorful balloons in red, white and blue around my bed.  I was then showered with red, white and blue confetti, and a few minutes later my first breakfast was brought up to me: two doughnuts and a cup of coffee.  Because as Jock says, this is a traditional American breakfast!  I could only finish half of one of the doughnuts before feeling mildly sick, but trusty Jocko helped me out with the other doughnut and a half.

That’s not all!  I stretched, put on my old lady robe, hobbled down the stairs to a box of pancakes and maple syrup!  My second American breakfast!  And guess what was for lunch?!  Oreo cookies!  So, yes I proved I have the best boyfriend in the world because he brings me tasty yet slightly fatty American foods.

On went the white trousers, blue top and big red earrings and shoes.  (Unfortunately, the only American flag I had also had a Welsh flag attached to it – that didn’t make my English boyfriend very happy.)  And off we went to Bez’ BBQ.  Bez went out the night before.  Bez got very drunk the night before.  Bez was not at house at time of BBQ.  Bez’s phone was turned off.  He eventually showed up, and all was fine.  Apparently Bez was a widdle bit sick.

So, although there were no fireworks, the English know how to throw a fourth of July party.  And even though I was the only American, they made me feel welcome with providing me with hamburgers, beer and hot dogs.  I even got some of them to sing our National Anthem!  Can’t beat that.

Swansea, Wales.

Wales was beautiful.  I had no idea.

Swansea is Beautiful

Mumbles, Wales

We went up to Swansea on Sunday morning since Jocko had the day off on Monday, and Gemma and Liam had invited us down for a couple of days.  Gemma was our official tour guide of Swansea. Spent the day walking around the beach, stopping multiple times to feed the boyfriends, and around the narrow streets.  I actually think that the town of Mumbles might have a step up on the Hollywood Hills.  It’s twisty and turny with large beautiful houses (plus a few castles here and there) and a gorgeous view of the sea but minus the pollution and mean big headed people and it’s where Catherine Zeta Jones is from (thanks Gem for the insider info!).

For lunch, we went to the King Arthur Inn and had a traditional Sunday roast by the sword in the stone and the round table.  Yes, apparently, King Arthur was indeed originally from Wales.  Another new tidbit from the wealth of knowledge of our tour guide.  The sun was shining, but ended up being too cold to sit outside.  The lambs that Jock and Liam had for lunch were probably grateful that they didn’t have to bare another cold dreary day munching grass.

Jock and Liam outside of King Arthur's Hotel

That night we stayed up until about 5AM just playing drinking games and debating our different languages of love. I didn’t know I still had it in me to stay up that late!  Although, to be fair, we have been going out quite a bit despite my last entry of claiming to be an old woman.  Maybe I’m an old woman during the day with my writing, blogging, housework, and gardening and a dynamic traveling Bristolian socialite by night!

The next day we had an amazing breakfast at The Junction Cafe and then headed down the street to the famous Joe’s Ice Cream Parlour.  It was probably the second best ice cream I have ever had right next to Mashti Malone’s in Los Angeles where Jock and I seriously went about twice a week to get their peanut butter chunk ice cream cone and gained five hundred pounds.  I do recommend the Ice Cream for anyone taking a stop to Swansea!

All in all, it was really nice to go to a beach town where we could just chill out with some friends, and smell the sweet sea air.