Highlights of This Past Week

Fiery conversations, cold Hefeweizens, and breathing the same air as my old friend Lindsey on Canary Wharf.

An hour conversation in which my friend, Gemma, describes how she got engaged – the most hilarious and touching marriage proposal I have ever heard. Nothing can beat a proposal in which the lady is still wearing her shower cap, and has yet to insert her contacts.

Being asked to be part of a wedding from one of my first California friends, Rachel. Four days in Austin, Texas next year, here I come!

Greg’s blackened, uncut toenails. Why a highlight? It was just too bizarre.

Lunch with Lindsey on a sunshine-filled day by the Roman Baths. She got to get away from the eighteen American teenagers and their ten pounds of weight in medication for an hour.

Wine, cheese and antipasti with Charlie and Eileen (my parent’s of the west coast) in our apartment in Bristol. Just like we used to in Long Beach.

The cathedral in England’s smallest city – Wells.

Pub Quiz at the Clifton Pub. We came in third, but with being three foreigners as our weakness, I was pleased with that result.

Oxford. A smile spread across my face as we entered the city and didn’t come off for the entire two days. “I want to move here,” I said to Jock for the twentieth time, “Have I said that already?” The masses of students give the old, venerable city a young, infectious energy. Bicycles keep the air clean and your eyes sharp as you cross the streets. Oh, so much more to say, but I’ll leave it at this – I want to move there.

Oh, and one more thing – Apparently, Oxford has retained all of its historical beauty because Hitler planned on making it his capital when he conquered England. Hence why London was torn to shreds. I read that in a “Best of England Pubs” brochure, so not sure how much accuracy that statement yields…but it’s fascinating if it is.

Other Highlights:

Pub crawl in Oxford. I found A Literal Girl. No, really, she exists. Miranda has a blog that I follow faithfully. When I say faithfully, I mean she is one of the rare blogs that I really look forward to reading and seek out her new posts. She writes eloquently, with meaning and has such insight into the fine details of life. She’s another American lady who lives in Oxford with her clever, charming English boyfriend, Xander. She showed us her city, and helped me to fall in love with it that much more.

Tea and cake with Jock in the sunshine with Stonehenge in the background. To be able to sit and have tea on the outskirts of Stonehenge discussing my future with the man I love – you can’t get any better than that.

An Engagement party.

Wales. No matter what anyone says – Wales is a magical country. Charlie, Eileen and I all agreed that we could spend two weeks trekking through the Brecon Beacons (that was the place Jock tried to take me on my birthday last year, but massive thunderstorms later, it failed.). We popped in the only castle owned by a Welshman in Wales – Carreg Cennen, walked along the farm, hiked 2.5 kilometers, popped by the nearby ancient market town of Llandeilo and grabbed a white chocolate, raspberry ice cream from the specialist shop on the corner.

Charlie and Eileen are able to get to France by the Chunnel, but their flight has been canceled to the USA. Who knew a volcano would cause such air traffic havoc?

Birthdays birthdays and more birthdays

August is apparently the most popular month for birthdays (and if WikiAnswers says it is, than you know it’s true) – meaning lots of parties in August.

Last weekend, Jocko and I headed up to London to visit my friend Gemma for her 28th.  We partied late and danced our tookushes off. Here are some photos:

Jocko and MALThe London CrewThe London Ladies

This weekend, Jock and I are heading to the Brecon Beacons in Wales which is a National Park (camping, hiking, kayaking, caving!) for my birthday. I really can’t wait to get out in the wilderness, pitch a tent and get back to the Earth. This is what I picture it will be like – rain! Although, honestly, I don’t care.  I don’t mind if I get muddy, wet and smell bad because I will be one with nature, damn it!

I opted not to bring any make up, but Jock said we may be going to pubs for dinner so kindly assured me that I will probably want to take some at least. Ouch. I guess it is what I feared all along – I look like a monster underneath all that finely applied concealer. At least I won’t have to look at myself!

In all honesty, he just said that because he knows how I will not leave the house without at least mascara on – never have never will.  I guess mascara is my version of my Grandmother’s red lipstick.

It does make you wonder though about that first time you bravely show your naked face to the man you love – wondering if he cringed or shuddered…and I say it’s brave because it’s freaking scary. Horror stories of screams and a gasp invade your thoughts; worries of waking up to a note scribbled “I thought I loved you until I saw your naked face. You’re not the woman I thought you were dot dot dot”; and fears of the zit on your chin talking and coercing him to find someone else with a clear face.  I may have moved to NY at the age of 19 with $35 in my pocket, white water rafted in Colorado and traveled through Eastern Europe on a train by myself – but baring my large pores, short eyelashes, mole, and pale skin to him was the ultimate risk.

Ah well, he’s still here, isn’t he? Can’t be that bad (wink wink).

I also didn’t want to shower all weekend, but Jock said there would be facilities to do that as well – can’t a girl just get a break and smell and look bad for one weekend? I understand though, because I wouldn’t want to sleep next to me sans shower either.

So, wish us luck – pray for good weather and blue skies, and scary pictures to follow next week…

Swansea, Wales.

Wales was beautiful.  I had no idea.

Swansea is Beautiful

Mumbles, Wales

We went up to Swansea on Sunday morning since Jocko had the day off on Monday, and Gemma and Liam had invited us down for a couple of days.  Gemma was our official tour guide of Swansea. Spent the day walking around the beach, stopping multiple times to feed the boyfriends, and around the narrow streets.  I actually think that the town of Mumbles might have a step up on the Hollywood Hills.  It’s twisty and turny with large beautiful houses (plus a few castles here and there) and a gorgeous view of the sea but minus the pollution and mean big headed people and it’s where Catherine Zeta Jones is from (thanks Gem for the insider info!).

For lunch, we went to the King Arthur Inn and had a traditional Sunday roast by the sword in the stone and the round table.  Yes, apparently, King Arthur was indeed originally from Wales.  Another new tidbit from the wealth of knowledge of our tour guide.  The sun was shining, but ended up being too cold to sit outside.  The lambs that Jock and Liam had for lunch were probably grateful that they didn’t have to bare another cold dreary day munching grass.

Jock and Liam outside of King Arthur's Hotel

That night we stayed up until about 5AM just playing drinking games and debating our different languages of love. I didn’t know I still had it in me to stay up that late!  Although, to be fair, we have been going out quite a bit despite my last entry of claiming to be an old woman.  Maybe I’m an old woman during the day with my writing, blogging, housework, and gardening and a dynamic traveling Bristolian socialite by night!

The next day we had an amazing breakfast at The Junction Cafe and then headed down the street to the famous Joe’s Ice Cream Parlour.  It was probably the second best ice cream I have ever had right next to Mashti Malone’s in Los Angeles where Jock and I seriously went about twice a week to get their peanut butter chunk ice cream cone and gained five hundred pounds.  I do recommend the Ice Cream for anyone taking a stop to Swansea!

All in all, it was really nice to go to a beach town where we could just chill out with some friends, and smell the sweet sea air.